For the most part,
I enjoyed it. And I'm sure most everyone else did.
And yet, there was
something missing, and I knew it.
Over the years,
I've grown more and more dissatisfied with the way church is done.
My youth group was merely one example. Sometimes we're focusing on
other things when we ought to be preaching, and when we are
preaching, it's cotton candy and does practically nothing to give
people what they actually need to apply the Gospel in their own
lives.
I think this
dissatisfaction is a good thing. It means we know we don't have
everything right, and that there is a model for churches, one we're
not currently meeting. Dissatisfaction with the way things are leads
to change.
However, we must
never mistake dissatisfaction for change for the sort of
dissatisfaction that leads to division – and the problem is, they
are very, very easy to confuse.
This past Sunday,
I visited one of our home churches with the rest of my family for the
first time since we've gotten back to America. One of the first
things I noticed after the service started was that the church had
switched to electronic drums.
And for the rest
of the first song, I was only half-singing, distracted and more than
a little annoyed at how wimpy the drums sounded.
After the first
song, I got my head on straight and figured it was more important to
worship Jesus than to get annoyed over drums. So I got over it and
the rest of the service was great.
But that was a
prime example of the wrong
sort of dissatisfaction. My example was a really minor one, but you
can easily apply it to another situation. A church changes youth
pastors and the new one is boring, or one of the pastors leaves the
church and a quarter of the congregation leaves with him, or the
style of the worship changes and either the younger generations think
it's too old or the older ones think it's too modern. There's a
myriad of different manifestations of it.
My
point is, in “critiquing” the modern church, we can become too
dissatisfied with it. Because we dislike the way church is done we
say we'll be done with church. The church has problems, and I'll be
the first to agree. But it's still the church.
We can't just abandon it or get annoyed with it and cause problems.
The best way to change something is not by pulling out, but by
pouring in.
I have problems with the amount of money spent on church buildings,
to use another personal example. But I'm not going to get into a
fight about it. What I am going to do is immerse myself in the Word
of God (encouraging others to do the same) and then He'll do the
talking from there.
If
we're focused on God, He'll produce in us the right sort of
dissatisfaction – the sort that leads to the right kind of change.
But it's always important to distinguish between the two. One will
lead us closer to the church in order to change it, and one will take
us farther away because it hasn't changed.
Let's make sure we've got our heads on straight.